One of those options is entering the world of online dating. There are many sites out there guaranteeing success and love. Some sites cost you money and there are others that are free to the single woman and fees only apply to the men and then there are still some that are 100% free. That’s right I said free. Whether you choose a fee or paid site, how do you weed out the Right's from all the Wrong's? Naturally, everyone has their own personal preferences, tall or short, MR BIG, or not, blonde, brunette, hairy or not.  The key when imagining Mr. Right, is being able to put that into verbiage that is creative, and grabs the reader's attention. Gone are the tired days of headlines like: “ SWF seeks SHM” You gotta jazz it up, show off your personality, and grab their attention:“Firey Redhead seeks Strong Partner to light her fire”

Now is your chance to grab their attention. Tell your story, and what you want. Do you just want a booty call? Or a long term relationship? What is your goal? Please ladies, be honest and straight forward. Tap into your inner self and write something hot and steamy, there are some books available with some great tips. So brush up on your knowledge, so you may be the one who receives the email instead of being passed by for someone else who maybe has some creative writing skills.